Tuesday, September 8, 2009 10:15 AM
6 Signs That a Guy is Falling For You
I think this is really interesting...so no harm sharing with you, i got it from someone's blog hehe......Sometimes dating can be really confusing, but realizing when a guy is really into you doesn't have to be. Here are 6 behaviors guys start to exhibit when they're falling for you.
1. He begins to keep it real - Most of the time when guys first approach a woman and begin to date them they'll brag on what they have and make their lives seem problem-free in an effort to impress you. A guy is beginning to fall for you when he loses the front and begins to show you the reality of his life, and confesses about the financial problems he's been having or how he's been having second thoughts about his career.
2. He starts to ask you about the future - A guy doesn't care about where you see yourself in twenty years unless he's interested in you. So if the guy you're seeing starts asking really personal questions like what your career goals are for the next five years instead of the meaningless questions like what your sign is then he's really trying to get to know you to see if you two would fit together in a relationship
3. He starts to open up - A guy is really falling for you when all he used to talk to you about was music and basketball and now he's telling you about how difficult his childhood was or how he felt when his grandma died. When a guy starts to lose the confident or tough guy image he was portraying to reveal his true feelings it lets you know that he trusts you and is comfortable enough with you to do so. A major sign that he's falling for you.
4. He asks you for your advice... and takes it - If your guy begins to really heed your advice on any of the major details of his life it shows that he values your opinion.
5. Makes you a part of his life - When the guy you're seeing takes the step to introducing you to his family and friends and really makes an effort to make you feel comfortable around them he's totally falling for you because he's beginning to bring you into his world. If they're treating you with respect and really seem interested in getting to know you it's because your guy has been talking you up which means he's definitely falling for you.
6. He starts to become distant - Even though it seems crazy, there are some commitment-phobic guys who, at the first realization that they might be falling for you, turn around and run in the opposite direction. If everything was going great between the two of you and he was exhibiting some of the signs above, but now he suddenly seems less interested in talking to you or being around you then don't take it personally or freak out.
Yes it could be that he's not into you anymore, but there's also the possibility that he suddenly realized how much he likes you and wants to be with you that it scared him especially if he loved being single. So just wait it out, and whatever you do don't keep calling him or pressing this issue with him. Go out and have fun with your friends and if he really fell for you he'll come back to you happy that he's fallen.
